How is an amicable divorce: steps and advice

The amicable divorce is an option more and more privileged by couples wishing to put an end to their union. As a specialist in legal law, I note that this procedure offers many advantages, especially in terms of speed and costs. Let me guide you through the essential steps and provide you with some precious advice to carry out your separation in the best possible conditions.

The key steps of a divorce by mutual consent

The amicable divorcealso called divorce by mutual consent, takes place in several well -defined phases. Here are the main steps to follow so that your procedure takes place in the best conditions:

Decision -making and preliminary discussions

The first step is to make the joint decision to divorce and start preliminary discussions. It is a crucial moment when you must calmly approach the different aspects of your separation. I strongly recommend adopting an open and constructive attitude to facilitate exchanges.

Choice of lawyers and development of the agreement

Once the decision has been made, each spouse must choose his lawyer. These professionals will support you in the development of the divorce agreement. This essential document will governing the terms of your separation, in particular:

The distribution of goods
Children’s custody and the right to visit
The amount of alimony
The possible compensatory allowance

Signature of the agreement and reflection period

Once the agreement has been written, you have a 15 -day reflection period before signing it. This time allows you to carefully reread the document and ensure that it meets your expectations. After the signing, the agreement is filed with a notary who records it, thus giving it enforceable force.

The advantages and points of vigilance of the amicable divorce

The Divorce by mutual consent Present many advantages, but it is also necessary to be vigilant in certain aspects. Here is an overview of the advantages and points to monitor:

Speed and controlled costs

One of the main advantages of amicable divorce lies in its speed. Indeed, the procedure can be finalized in just a few months, against sometimes several years for a litigation divorce. In addition, costs are generally more controlled, as you avoid long legal proceedings.

Preservation of family relationships

By choosing this path, you opt for a peaceful approach that promotes dialogue and mutual understanding. This often preserves cordial relationships, which is particularly important when children are involved. Besides, I strongly recommend that you explore the advantages of family mediation to find peaceful solutions.

Vigilance points

Despite its advantages, the amicable divorce requires particular vigilance on certain points:

Aspect	Vigilance
Equity	Ensure that the agreement is fair for both parties
Transparency	Ensure total transparency on the financial situation
Protection of children	Favor the best interests of children in all decisions

Advice for a successful amicable divorce

With my experience in supporting couples in the process of divorce, I want to share with you some precious advice to carry out your procedure:

Communicate with kindness

Communication is the key to a successful divorce. Faith to maintain an open and respectful dialogue, even in difficult times. I have often found that couples who manage to communicate serenely cross this test much more easily.

Prepare carefully

Good preparation is essential. Gather all the necessary documents (bank statements, property titles, etc.) and think upstream of your wishes concerning childcare, sharing of goods, etc. This preparation will allow you to approach discussions with more serenity and efficiency.

Make yourself accompanied by professionals

Do not hesitate to request the help of competent professionals. In addition to lawyers, you can call on a family mediator to facilitate dialogue, or a chartered accountant for complex financial aspects. Their expertise will help you make informed decisions.

In summary, the amicable divorce offers a serene path to end your union. By following these steps and these tips, you maximize your chances of living this transition in a peaceful way. Remember that each situation is unique, and that it is important to adapt to the specificities of your personal case. With patience, openness and good accompaniment, you can turn this page in your life in a positive and constructive way.